9 signs you are an Alpha Female-A Total Badass who doesn’t give a damn

9 min readMar 7, 2021

There are only a few things as stunning and intimidating as being an alpha woman. Her innate sense of leadership, courage, confidence, passion, emotional intelligence, and clear vision in life makes her stand apart. She is fierce, competitive, strong and completely unapologetic about the way she is. She not only knows how to love and bond but also how to protect her self-esteem and self-interest. While she is sassy and classy, she is grounded and in-touch with reality. Her persona is strong and often impressive. And it is no surprise that many women out there find themselves falling in the category of being called alpha female. So if you are opinionated, do not always need a man by your side and are not afraid of saying no, then welcome to the club. Yes, you are a badass woman, and most men find you intimidating. But hold on, there is a lot more to it. There are many more signs of an alpha female than you can think of!

9 Signs You Are An Alpha Female-A Total Badass Who Doesn’t Give A Damn!

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So what do we mean by an Alpha Woman?

Before we read the signs of an alpha female, we need to know what an alpha woman technically means. While the term alpha female is gaining a lot of traction nowadays, do we really know who an alpha female is? As per the definition, a woman who has completely embraced her ambition and is talented, highly motivated, self-confident deserves to be called an alpha female. She is a dominant force in the society, powerful and playful. But do you really fall into the category of an alpha woman? Check out the following nine signs of an alpha female.

Quick Fact:The term alpha has come from research on animal behaviour, where it is used to designate a male animal who is the leader of the pack.

Nine Signs You Are An Alpha Female

There are a few prominent signs of being an alpha woman that you need to acknowledge to identify yourself as an alpha female and see if you fall in one of these categories. If you do, you are formidable, and it is the time to roar aloud. People are listening.

1.You are strong, unstoppable and confident

You are strong-headed, laser-focussed, sharp and goal-oriented, both personally and professionally. You have a strong determination to get your things done and go the extra mile to achieve them. Once you decide a thing, there is no looking back. You do not backtrack and do not respect those who do. And the biggest quality is that you never give up and keep moving ahead even against all the odds. You are not afraid to take risks. In fact, there is no life for you without the risk. These qualities drive you and keep you on the track to becoming the woman you longed to be.

2.You believe in gender equality

You are career-oriented, outgoing, confident of your feminity and know who you exactly are. You love to lead the pack rather than being a mute follower. You work towards equality and not towards female superiority. You respect individuals, make informed choices and refrain from judging a person. While you challenge the systematic inequalities that women face, you do not aim to belittle the opposite gender.

You love to break the stereotypes without an iota of guilt on your forehead. While some people are jealous of this trait and some are intimidated, others admire you for this.

3.You own your sexuality

You exercise your right to sexual autonomy and conduct your sexual life as per your terms and conditions. You are not shy to share your sexual fantasies with your friends, lover or your husband. You are bold and speak up your mind freely. You are also confident of your sexuality and own it in front of others. So whether you are straight, lesbian, bi or asexual, it doesn’t define who you are. You are aware of your sensual self and do not mind experimenting and settling for the best.

4.You are not afraid of living alone

So you ended a long-term relationship with your boyfriend? That is perfectly fine. Your relationship does not define you, and you are capable enough to accomplish your goals with or without love in your life. You do not need a shoulder to cry on or do not need your man Friday to console you to tranquillity. You do well in a relationship and are capable of doing even better without it. You understand and don’t let your emotional baggage come in the way of your life. As you accept your situation, you let it guide you in future rather than be a roadblock.

You love to travel, and you can travel solo without even thinking twice. In fact, solo travel is what you have been longing for since your last relationship. Sometimes you also realise that being single is better than being in a toxic relationship and that your breakup was a blessing in disguise. As far as boys are concerned, there will be many others and you are not shy of adding another trolley to the lorry. You are completely aware that happiness is a choice and you choose to be happy, even against all the odds.

It also means you only believe in forming meaningful relationships at work and in your personal life while letting all the negative people and energy vampires stay out of your life for good. You have only a few friends and family members who you cherish, and you go the extra mile to retain them. Once you are romantically inclined, you are invested!

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All in all, you are not scared of people around you, and you do not let people walk over you. You give it back on their face, and rather are the first one to walk out.

5.You stand up for yourself

You are not afraid of standing up for yourself. You have clearly defined a boundary line that no one can cross. You make mistakes, own them and learn from them. You do not sacrifice and compromise in a relationship, believe in pulling your own strings and are in control of your own life. It also means you do not depend on others. Instead, you try to be as independent as possible. You make things happen in your life and steer it in the direction you want to. Your high emotional intelligence is worth mentioning as you keep yourself mentally and physically strong.

6.You are the spotlight

In social gatherings, parties or even business events, you are the one with a spotlight shining bright. You are the centre of attraction, are bold, opinionated, and overpowering. You have a strong aura and are not afraid of outshining your man. And on top of it, you expect your man to accept you as it is or fade away in his insecurities. Pun intended!

Do you find people come up to you for your opinion? Or do people look up to you for your guidance and advice? As per research, one of the signs of an alpha female is that people often put them in a position of mentorship, seek their opinion, and put them in a leadership position. Being an alpha female, you are in the spotlight and people follow you wherever you go. You are a real champion for your family and friends.

“you do not go looking for the attention. Attention finds you.”

7.You live with a purpose

You have a strong purpose in life and live to fulfil your goals in all the aspects of your life. You have clear spiritual, mental, financial, familial, social and lifestyle goals in mind that you swear by. You have set a higher meaning in life than just to earn money and exists and are operating high on your self-actualization needs. You have attached some deeper meaning to your life, and your purpose is larger than the life itself.

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8.You are ambitious yet balanced

You are career-oriented, and work is your second name. Dare anyone trespass that territory! While you love to work and give it your best, you balance your life pretty well. You spend quality me-time, enjoy simple pleasures of life, workout at the posh gym in the skimpiest of clothes, practise mindfulness, go out for coffee in the evenings and party all night at the weekends. You also believe in having the best possible life and work hard towards it. You recognize that hard work is the only mantra to success and abide by it while maintaining a healthy work-life balance.

9.You are often misunderstood

As an alpha woman, you often put yourself first before others and do not succumb to unwanted societal pressures. But this often leads you to be misunderstood very easily. Since you are confident, opinionated, and speak up your mind upfront, even if it means saying no to people around you, people often consider you mean and disrespectful. While it is true that as an alpha female, you give a damn f*** to what people think of you, it is also true that your success, boldness and independence are beyond their comprehension. You certainly believe in going ahead and letting your Lamborghini make noise for you.

Certainly, an alpha woman is confident and fearless. There are many other signs of an alpha female and if you think you nailed any of these signs, you are on the right track girl. You are the future of humanity and womanhood. So embrace it, flaunt it, love it and be proud of it. Flaunt yourself aloud but make sure you vibrate positive vibes. Be the person people admire and not the other way round.

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Originally published at https://theeasywisdom.com on March 7, 2021.