Am I Gay, Bi-Curious, Bisexual or Straight? Take This Am I Gay Quiz to Find Out!
Are you someone who is not clear about those weird feelings towards other men? Stop wondering and find out if you are gay, bi-curious, bisexual or straight by honestly answering 15 simple questions in the following ‘Am I Gay Quiz’ & ‘Am I bisexual Quiz.’
Am I gay? Or am I bisexual? A lot of people question their sexuality and wonder if they are even straight? If you are a man who identifies as straight but is wondering ‘am I gay or bisexual?’ you are not alone. The global closet is enormous, and being gay or bisexual is no more news now! While some men believe they are straight, deep within they know they are bisexual or gay. It can be devastating when you cannot decipher your sexual identity as it takes a toll on your mental health and present relationships. It also can be confusing when you are attracted to the opposite sex or the same sex or both and are not sure about it. For some, it is clear, but for others, it can be really tough. So if you are someone who is not clear about those weird feelings towards other men, stop wondering and find out if you are gay, bi-curious, bisexual or straight by honestly answering 15 simple questions in the following ‘Am I Gay Quiz’ & ‘Am I bisexual Quiz.’
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Am I Gay Quiz/ Am I Bisexual Quiz
Are you confused about your feelings about your true sexuality? While many men wonder: am I gay or am I bisexual? There is no one universal sign to prove that. All men are different regardless of their sexuality. But there are a few common traits that may hint at your sexuality. So, if you are struggling or confused about your sexuality, find out whether you are straight, gay or bisexual now by taking the ‘Am I gay quiz.’
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Am I Gay Quiz:
Read the following 15 questions and select the option that best describes your feelings or situation. If you do not find any option that describes your situation or feelings, choose the closest one. Note down your options and then count them. Find out if most of your responses are mostly, As, Bs, Cs, or Ds. The answers are given at the end of the quiz.
Q1: Have you ever slept with another man?
A. No!
B. No, but I do not mind the idea of exploring it.
C. Yes, just after a few drinks.
D. Yes, I really enjoyed it.
Q2: If you see a hot and handsome man in a coffee shop, how would you react?
A. I do not pay much attention to other men. I don’t care!
B. Look at them a few times.
C. Check them out as I can’t keep my eyes off.
D. I will try to exchange numbers and take it forward.
Q3: Would you date someone of the same sex if given the opportunity?
A. No! Not at all.
B. I don’t know, but I do not mind exploring.
C. I do not mind at all! Love is beyond genders.
D. Yes! That’s is what I always wanted.
Q4: Would you date someone of the opposite sex?
A. Yes, I already have a girlfriend!
B. I like girls. But I don’t mind experimenting with same-sex relationships.
C. Yes, but I prefer men.
D. Never. I want a man for myself.
Q5: Another man seems to be flirting with you. What would be your reaction?
A. I will ignore and hold my girl tight! I don’t like when men flirt with me.
B. I enjoy attention from other men.
C. I get excited. I like it.
D. Yes, this is what I want. I will flirt back!
Q6: If being gay was accepted and same-sex union legal, would you date other men?
A. No, I am good with my girl. I am not interested in marrying someone of the same sex.
B. I like the option to marry a man or woman without being judged.
C. Yes, sounds good. I have previously dated both men and women, so I can choose whom to marry.
D. Yes, definitely yes! I would marry my dream man.
Q7: If given an opportunity to be with a hot guy, how far would you go with this person?
A. Nothing. I will treat him just like a friend.
B. I don’t know. But I am open to exploring.
C. I will kiss him, and it depends on how far the other person wants to take it. I do not mind some fun.
D. Grab him to the darkroom and do it right there. It is what I have been craving.
Q8: If given an opportunity, how far would you go with a member of the opposite sex?
A. I would grab this opportunity and do it right there. I am straight.
B. I would do it. But at times, I feel like exploring another man just for the experience sake.
C. I would dance, kiss and take it further. But if another man wants to join us, I am more than happy to involve him. After all, I enjoy men and women alike.
D. Yuck! I wouldn’t do anything with them. I like men only.
Q9: You see two hot men next to your hotel room making out. What would you do?
A. I do not care. It’s weird.
B. I envy them. I am afraid to do something like this with another man.
C. Of course, I would watch them and enjoy the show.
D. I would watch them. And if given an opportunity I would like to join them. Or else I would finish off watching the show.
Q10: You see a hot woman and handsome man making out. What would you do?
A. I will watch the woman, imagine and feel her.
B. I will watch both of them. But I don’t mind exploring this handsome man.
C. I will watch both of them. But I would want to have it with both of the two individually.
D. I will watch the man only. I am only interested in men. They turn me on.
Q11: If you are dating a woman, which one holds true?
A. I am happy and satisfied with my girlfriend. And we are sexually, mentally and emotionally compatible.
B. I am happy and satisfied. But I sometimes feel unfulfilled when I see those gay boys so much into each other.
C. I am happy with my current relationship, but I enjoyed my previous encounter with men. I want to enter into a relationship with another man.
D. I am really unhappy in my current relationship as I fancy men. I want to get out of it as soon as possible and find my dream man.
Q12: If you are having a threesome involving a male and a female, which one describes your feelings the best?
A. I like to watch my girl do it with another man. It excites me makes me crave for her more.
B. I like to watch my girl, but I want to have a piece of that handsome man too. And that’s why I floated the idea of having a threesome.
C. I want to do it with both of them. Looking at that boy makes me horny. Though my sex life with my girl is good, I like to do it with boys as well.
D. I just want to grab that man and do it hard. The woman doesn’t exist for me.
Q13: Did you ever watch gay-adult content? If not, and if you happen to watch it now, what would your take be?
A. I am not into it. I like all the straight stuff only.
B. I have never seen it, but I don’t mind watching it.
C. I have seen it. I enjoy it as much as I enjoy the straight adult content.
D. I see gay adult content only. Even when I watch straight adult content, I focus only on men.
Q14: Do you have gay friends or know gay people, and do you hang out with them?
A. I know a few, but I do not hang out with them. I am happy with my straight friends only.
B. I know a few, but I want to know them better. I want to know how they do it and what’s their deal.
C. I have gay friends and have been with a few of them in bed. But I enjoy women as well.
D. I have a lot of gay friends and have done with many of them.
Q15: What are your thoughts about your sexuality?
A. I am straight. I don’t like same-sex.
B. I won’t date any other man but can sleep with them for some fun.
C. I guess I am bisexual. I can date both boys and girls.
D. I think I might be gay. I just fancy men, and it is what I want.
If your responses are mostly As: You are straight!
If your answers are mostly As, you are straight, and you know about it. You never had any gay experience and are not open to it as well. It is really great to know about your sexuality. But one piece of advice for you is not to be homophobic even though you do not like same-sex relationships. By nature, the majority of men are born straight. But you can choose to become an LGBTQ+ ally. Even if you do not buy the idea of gay relationships, do not disrespect it. Like the way you were born straight, gay men are born that way.
If your responses are mostly Bs: You are bi-curious!
If your answers are mostly Bs, you do not mind a little experimenting with other men. You are straight, and no one is doubting that. But you are gay-curious and have no problem displaying affection for other men. Maybe you have kissed a boy out of curiosity or something more, but you have never explored your feelings about being with another man, perhaps.
Some of you are (or were) in a relationship with a woman and are now exploring attraction to other men. There is nothing wrong with that. Just follow your instincts and explore yourself. Making your hands dirty is the best way to learn. You never know what the future holds for you.
If your responses are mostly Cs: You are bisexual!
If your answers are mostly Cs, you are sexually attracted to both men and women alike, and you do not mind sleeping with or entering a relationship with either. Despite what others might say, bisexuality is a beautiful thing. It gives you the best of both worlds as it allows you to be in a relationship with anyone regardless of gender. So better be proud of your bisexuality and come out loud. Learn to embrace it and not let anyone else belittle you for your sexual orientation.
If your responses are mostly Ds: You are completely gay!
If your answers are mostly Ds, you are 100% gay, and there is no doubt in it. And the best part is that you are able to understand your sexuality and decipher your true feelings for boys. You are cent per cent into guys and same-sex relationships, and it can be awesome. While it is still not really easy to come out as gay, you have to pull yourself out and reclaim your life. If you are in a relationship or are a gay man married to a woman, you should come out of it immediately. You should be proud of who you are, and it is time to take a stand for yourself. It is the way you were born, and it was never a phase. The people who care about you won’t give a damn about your sexuality or judge you. And those who will were never your friends.
I hope this ‘Am I Gay Quiz’ helped you find out whether you are straight, gay, bisexual or bi-curious and brought some clarity to your thoughts.
What is the purpose of the ‘Am I gay quiz’?
The purpose is clear. If you have these thoughts about your sexuality, chances are you may exhibit a few signs that may indicate that you are gay, bisexual or bi-curious. It is a general test to suggest a few signs that may hint about your sexuality.
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So now you found out about your sexuality, let us answer a few questions that gay and bisexual people may ask.
Why am I gay?
It is one of the toughest questions to answer. Many psychologists, doctors, religious leaders and other professionals are still debating on the nature of homosexuality. There is a huge debate regarding homosexuality on whether it is a choice or a predisposition. It is also called as nature versus nurture debate. And there is no unanimous conclusion yet. However, most of the pro LGBTQIA+ groups, professionals, doctors and advocates believe that homosexuality is innate. It means they believe that gay people are born this way, it is not a choice or preference, and that homosexuality has a genetic predisposition.
Also, there is a lot of acceptability of the LGBTQ+ community nowadays.
How to accept your sexuality?
For some people, it is easier to accept their sexuality. But for some, it is a difficult revelation to make. How comfortable one is about accepting their sexuality depends on various factors like society, family, friends, religion, and the country they come from. People fear rejection, judgement and abandonment from their loved ones and society at large. Therefore, coming out is a personal choice. And, before you decide to come out, you have to accept your sexuality, make yourself comfortable with this feeling, and then determine how comfortable you are sharing it with others. Coming out is a long process, so make your journey easy by finding the right thing that works for you.
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